I know EXACTLY how you feel. If you look back to my thread you'll see I had the same thing a few weeks ago. I did let an old friend hug me, who I knew was attracted to me, and boy was it nice to just be hugged and held and feel appreciated. And also to feel as if I was attractive again! The thing is that all the time I was thinking that, while it was nice, he was not my h and I just really wanted it to be my h hugging me. I also knew that I was vulnerable so it wasn't really right. That is why I don't think that you will just plop yourself into whoever the lucky man's is lap, or if you do you will know what is right.
It did lift my spirits though as we humans are not meant to be so starved of affection, and we aren't nuns!! But it is really dangerous territory. I'm so glad that I wanted my h afterall...
Be careful, it has the potential to get complicated and make you feel worse. It is a quick fix solution.
