Hi all- back from a relaxing week at the lake for the most part! We were a little strained middle of the week- I could tell H was getting antsy or just imagining it and letting it bother me- but we had some really fun times. Slept with H for 7 straight nights! woohooo! It was Ok from that perspective. Last night H was in a good mood but had a dinner- I told him he should come home instead of sisters house and he said I know and I am seeing someone as in a C tomorrow (!!) He called me on his way and was happy and so was I of course! I got a new car- a convertible BMW- a birthday gift if anyone remembers that ordeal! It is gorgeous and I feel like a million dollars in it - big boost to the PMA I hate to say. H was very pleased with my enthusiasm and big smiles! H always said he couldnt please me esp. with gifts.
I also just met H for lunch after his appt with psychologist and he said she had some pointed questions for him and beat him up a little but it was good. They talked about me and also she gave him a personality book to work on from a college on the east coast...dont know yet. I did like hearing that she was direct with him and gave him some flack. In some ways he is pretty easy on himself or has excuses for himself instead of being accountable. I guess we all do that when things are tough maybe. I didnt ask him much about it but feel happy he is doing something. If he talks more I will listen!! I tend to make the conversation too light I think when he starts talking. Next time I shut my mouth. At the lake we did some work, took a run, had some drinks, boating, out to breakfast, made a bonfire, had some friends down and went on a few great night cruises. So overall great break!
H made a comment about maybe moving home in the future sometime, possibly getting a suburban and keeping his jeep to drive in the snow. But just an idea he says. So...pretty non commital. He said he would come back in the middle of the night last night but didnt. He called ot apologize, which he never used to do= said he didnt like when he didnt keep his word. This was disappointing to me this morning and I accepted his apology and got on with things without resentment. I hope his new C is good. I am thinking about sending him part of that DB newsletter talking about MCs. Today is my D's b-day and she is seven! Looking forward to a party tonight with my parents, H and my brother. oh yes, the sister my H stays with, proposed to her whacko boyfriend and getting married in June 2004. H and FIL dont like him. Somewhat interesting, hmmmmm....
Shay
Hope everyone had a good week last week and looking forward to catching up on your sitches!