Wait, what comment about moving out? What'd I miss?
Back a couple or three months ago, the two "little" guys weren't doing their work to W's satisfaction. She said, "I have a job now, I can leave."
Originally Posted By: beginnersmind
Jeff, you know what, some people in this world really just cant be happy, no matter what. Its not in them. Your w sounds like one of them. You have to decide if you want to live the rest of your life with someone like that.
I think I've about decided that I don't want to live that way. I guess it could be possible, but not only can she not be happy, she has to pull me down, too. And that won't work anymore.
Originally Posted By: beginnersmind
I am realizing that life is short, do I want to live the rest on my life with someone who doesnt accept me for who I am, who always has to be in control, who cannot say he's sorry? I have faults too, but the difference is, I cannot admit that.
You cannot change your w, you cannot make her happy or make her even want to be happy, only she can do that.
So, keep GAL, keep taking care of you, keep moving forward with your notes and all, but remember she has to work on her. And she seems to want to wallow in self pity.
I think you have pretty much summarized things, in a nutshell!
