>>The trick is to do it in a way that's not seen as pursuing.<<
Yes, not pursuing, but lighthearted and fun. Just try to joke and have fun. Don't worry or take anything too seriously.
One thing I've learned it's okay to give compliments and be nice even if the other person doesn't want you or is going to leave you tomorrow. You never LOSE anything by being a loving person. So don't be afraid to give. Also, giving isn't about what you get back.
Have an awesome weekend!!!! Carpe Diem
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
