I think a funeral would get you down a bit, anyway. So, I think for the weekend, try not to think too much about you H, and his OW! Hopefully you won't get a lot of questions, since you are not the focal point of the activities, at all. Just one foot in front of the other!
I like your conclusion about your D. I really think that many daycare providers are more concerned with what will make their life easier than with the actual development of the kids. Give her an extra hug tonight!
