Hi Shay,

I think your H and mine have a lot in common!

I don't have anything to add as still stumbling along but I wanted to thank you for your post. I think what you said was something I really needed to hear at that time!

I am levelled out again and hope like heck to stay here.

My H very much won't stay in the house overnight now. No idea on this at all. He may stay here till midnight or so but he will make that 40 minute drive back to his sisters every time. How can they need space to sleep? He isn't sleeping worth a darn at his sisters. Falls asleep almost every time he comes to visit!

Sorry hijacked your thread and just meant to THANK YOU!


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"