Thanks Greg! You know how bad it used to be- and when I think of it that way it gives me hope. You always throw a little dash of humility back into my psyche! I need that at times. I used to just live to see H and do something together. Now H is actually planning to go on vacation with me! For maybe a whole week and possibly 2 seperate weeks- we talked about this Monday on the way home from the lake. I think my new strategy for self improvement is to focus on me a bit more- enjoy myself and hope H wants to join me. Set up a new counselor for H or both of us. Read up on communication and work on being a better listener. Have a great day all, Shay
