Alimari asked:

Originally Posted By: Alimari
Any good books on the subject?


I would read Michael J. Bader's Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies. Just be prepared for lots of psycho-babble: his intended audience is fellow analysts and therapists, not the general public.

I swear Ali, you're at least a switch, who's been taking on a very dominate role of late. I'd be interested to know what your fantasy is (over in your thread), BUT it's probably better to keep it private between you and hubby. You and DQ already drive us boys nuts with your stories....

And I fully agree with you: Child Centered Marriage == BAD NEWS, even for the kids.
Been there, done that, it is TEH SUKZOR.

See what my older kids do to my vocabulary?

-- B.


Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs
S25, D23, S13, S10
20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007