Yea, bud. Of course, it is ALWAYS our fault. Everything.

When she got home, and I showed her the printout of our account. I told her that the day before, I assumed she looked at the account when she was looking at her account online. She says she did, but it wasn't that low. She forgets we have some things withdrawn electronically. Insurance, mortgage and several of her credit accounts. I'll have to remind her to cancel or change the debit account on those, btw.

Here is me taking the high road with an email:


"Hi.

I figured your still mad at me so I thought I would stop by and say hello to you.

You know, I..... never mind. Won't give my feelings on work email.

Just like us. One step forward, two steps back.

Anyway, I just checked on the girls. They're fine. They ate lunch. You probably spoke to them already, though. I just finished a delicious fried baloney sandwich. Mmmmmm. Save me a piece of the steak you had for lunch.

Just kidding. You don't really have to save me a piece \:\)

Are Frances and Joe coming in town? If not, I'd like to take the girls to Fiesta Texas tomorrow.

THANKS TO SECURITY SERVICE FOR THE DISCOUNT TICKETS.

Have a great rest of the day."


Since her emails seem to get screened, I thought I would give a shout out to her employer.

I'll keep trying to talk to her until she doesn't want me to talk to her anymore. Will have to be more upbeat around her. I haven't been lately. Just quiet.

My ultimatum decision will teeter on if and when she leaves. I just don't see how she is going to do it.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."