Just when you think things are going well - boom!! I know the feeling. I really do think alcohol can make monsters of them - no wonder you were so hurt and upset. Of course you meant nothing by your tone it really hurts me when H says that to me. When they are struggling with something and you can see a way out and they just snap at you for it. Grrrr. But I guess it gets at their manhood or something and they feel it more when they are a bit drunk. I have learnt not to take anything personally that H says when he has had a few beers. Not always easy as I can't always be keeping count. But if something nasty just comes out of the blue I am starting to think OK is this him or is it the beers.
I have a few issues with H and alcohol. I hope that is not your sitch.
take care
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
