(((((Jeff))))) just stopping in for a mojito please! I thought what your C had to say was interesting. I'm inclined to agree with her that W may not want to change/ever have the inclination. What would you do in that case?
I don't know......I want to be positive and believe that the notes/reading books will cause a shift in her. But someone who's so convinced that you're at fault (piffle), and who wouldn't even come to C to help you doesn't sound like they see anything wrong with themselves. For that reason I'd be more inclined to take a direct approach (a radical 180?!). What do you think? I think the little things would be great but she's not responded before (has she?) and it's been 9 months since I started reading your posts!