I'm actually a bit taken aback at how LOW a regard my H appears to have for OW#2. Sure in the beginning, when he was all "in love" she was PERFECT, his "soul mate".
But I guess she had enough time to hang herself with the manipulative behaviours, demanding he call, threatening to call me etc. The last reference he made to her was as "Psychob!tch"
Just one of the lucky ones, I guess!
Also, Shay, your H's behaviours (the lack of joy in most activities) are sounding like anxiety slipping into depression!!! All the more reason to give meds or counselling a try.