Its ironic to me, that we are the ones that have to make sure not to hurt or upset them, but they are the ones who created this situation, and yet if we make them face that they want to high tail it to the hills! A few months ago, I sat down with H and told him what my feels were, I said it need to be done and it did help, but I think they have to be in the right place to hear that with out them panicing!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!