I have just dropped in on your thread. It's pretty up and down huh?
Quote: I guess I let my emotions and resentment seep in and found myself being critical of the OW. I need to do better dont I? I am so sick of hearing the good stuff about her.
A couple of years after I first got together with H I started to talk about XBF of 7 year in more positive tones. He was PO'd. But I said I am not such an idiot credit with me some taste. I think that's what you need to think about OW. You are sick of hearing the good stuff, of course you are, but your H is not an idiot and you might be proud of that. He has to excuse his own behaviour too. If he felt he had been having an A with devil woman then how would that make him feel.
Anyway if she's so great and he still picks you....
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong