I saw this in the Wifey's reply to Neil and it makes so much sense....
"My h said something that resonated with me about how this is about him. With you upset and not eating, everyone is worried about you, I'm worried about you - its still all about you."
please take the focus off you- it hurts you...it doesnt mean you cant cry and scream, just not at him anymore...
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese