Ken, I really like Good Marriage Great Husband. My H read it, & it's helped us tons.

Everybody,

I'm in a hurry now, gotta rush to MC, but will be back soon.

Just wanted to share some hope & warm fuzzies....here's an e-mail I sent H this morning.

H Honey,

that is really a beautiful poem, thank you. I love you, last night was AMAZING.

I loved sitting in the tub, talking about anything & everything, & it was okay. All of our defenses down,
just you & me, working through our own insecurities, our own worries, sharing our hearts. It was beautiful. xoxo

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.