Oh it's a definite, as a matter of fact quite probable, possibility that he is chasing some childhood demons - his family history is horrible. You are so right about my looking to him to be my protector now. Which is so different than I ever was in at least the beginning of our marriage. I was almost too independent and wanted no support or help from him. I was really not a very nice person and would never have let him think for one minute I was needy. When that was exactly what I needed was for him to be the "man" and be my protector. I'm probably not going to talk to him at all before he leaves now, although he did say he would call me,not sure if he meant today or not?? How do you forward your link to people, because I am afraid this one will freeze like yours did and I don't know how to do the link thing like you have at the bottom of your post?
Me-48 H-48 Married 25years Sep 12/05 S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12 Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1565826
