Yep - I was gobsmacked and so hurt by what the OW had 'planned' for her future with MY H . Actually, thinking about this makes me feel a lot better....because I know that H never was able to really realistically see any future plans with OW working - it was all driven by her. I guess that should maybe tell me something ;\)

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength