I have to agree that it sounds like your H could use a therapist. Some of his anxieties are bordering on the obsessive compulsive type (like having to leave before coming back...).
All in all, however things seem pretty good! Plans for the lake, possible vacation (even that screams of clinical anxiety...to feel overwhelmed just looking at options...I know I've been there ).
Now what is it with you and LL and the suntans. Shay! at 40 you should know what the sun does to your skin . Well I hope you are going for a golden touch rather than the permanent walnut my sister sought all her life and now has all the time!
I tanned a lot on my teens and started to pay for it in my 30's. I developed brown spots on my forehead which are still partially visible despite sun-aversion and treatment.
Oh, heck, if it makes you feel good, who am I to preach!
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