To me her comment about , "didnt you get enough..?" Suggests she doesnt get it yet.... she still "thinks' IMO~ that you are just needing a release.......that you only want to have sex to get off. The no kissing is a big sign of that too. IMO~ In her mind she kept her end of the bargain.. you came. I used to think I was just a body part to my H too..
You are making progress. At any rate be happy for that. There used to be posters here whose Wives did not even make an effort. And yes I know well maybe no effort is better than half. LIke B~ asked... is she loving with you?
There is a big difference in I am trying and I love my hubby. and, well you know. Hang in there NTE~ I was wondering where you were. I forgot all about your trip.
This is really hard NTE~ it took me a long time to get it.
My H would even say ... how long do I have to wait? And I felt like my wheels were just spinning and I was getting nowhere. I was frustrated with myself. I didnt get it. I had to read a lot of books and talk to my H a lot to finally get it. Answer Bagheeras questions when you have time. I am also interested to know the answers. We are all here to help and support you.
