He said those shorts made you look PREGNANT??? Does this man have a brain at all?????
I must reiterate that I think you have the patience of a 1000 women to put up with this very odd situation...he's there, he's not, he's sleeping over, he's at SIL's. God have mercy!!!!
I think it was DEFINITELY a good thing that he noticed the wedding ring change. But this man is sending you so MANY mixed signals your head must be spinning from dawn till dusk, and probably all night too!
He sounds very confused, Shay, so what can you do about it? Sadly, NOT MUCH! It's HIS confusion, HIS problem.
I wonder if doing what Ellie suggested and not being quite so available and patient might not wake him up a little? He sure seemed shaken that you might have stopped wearing your ring because you are "giving up on him".
But at the same time, you DO have a lot of good stuff happening and you wouldn't want to push him in the other direction, or might that help? Oh, Gosh I'm so confused!
Wiser DBer's....help us out here! (A little guidance from God couldn't hurt either!)
Hang in there, at least you're on the right forum now!
