Greg, Does drinking beer count? I agree, I will think about it. The dinner I had last week brought a good reaction. My biggest anxiety at the moment is guilt about not having a vacation with the kids this summer set up. I think I should take them myself but I am not sure I can handle this mentally. I think of a trip to the beach or a cruise but that would feel pretty lonely. I think a mental change for the better would go well here! still thinking...