Kat, it is so difficult to see the end result of what you have been fighting against for so long. At least where it appears to be going. For both you and Karen.
That is why I feel like just dropping my rope with my wife. I'm tired of fighting for what I THINK is hope for her to see the light. I am trying to search myself and thinking of telling her to go through with D papers if she actually moves out.
Like I just want to save myself from going through the possible hell any longer.
Especially after reading the link that lodo provided.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."