Hi Shay! Good to see you here. I must say, your sitch is so strange with H still sleeping at sister's. Maybe he would benefit from your being a little busier with your own life, starting to not be home some evenings, a little mysterious about your whereabouts? Have you read that thread on 180's by CarolK yet? If not, you'll find the link in a posting I made on Mal's thread a few days ago - required reading for you, I think. This woman brought her H home after 16 mos. separation by giving him the (false) impression she was dating!
