Shay..glad to have you here...been lots of new people here...that is a good sign.
My h is not at home..but we don things and we talk..not r talk. I am jeolous of the back rub..I would just like to be held or hugged..anything. As far as him staying over..if he does not feel ready..I sure would not push it.My h needed his space..to think about things..to figure out what he needs..I am patiently respecting that.