The financial aspects of D are soooooooo lost on the WS. Kat, you have said as has Karen that this will be costly. I can so relate to that. But my WW doesn't get it. I am sure she thinks I will agree to simply walk away from the house and condo and keep paying the bills. What a joke!
The other "cost" of D that is lost on WS is the impact on the K's. Because of the potential new financial realtity, how many doors will be closed for them that may have stayed open? How many of their dreams will be shattered? That is the part taht really breaks my heart. They didn't ask to come in this world yet they have to pay for the $hit that is going on!
Kat, I understand your feelings.
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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.