First,

Shay,

Welcome to Piecing. Glad to have you over here.

Maybe talk to H about easing back over to the house. See if he will sleep there just once a week for a while then twice and so on so forth so that he can get back, to sleeping there. If he is anxious about sleeping with you have him sleep in a different bed or somthing like that. That way there is not as much pressure.

Lee