Well, what I thought would be a very productive day at home yesterday turned into a very lazy one. D4 and I didn't do much, but that was okay. We watched movies & played some games. We wanted to go to the pool, but a big storm moved through that kept us inside for a while.
H got home last night around 8:30. He grabbed a glass of wine & went into the shower. After that, he ate & fell asleep on the couch, not saying anything to D4 or myself. D4 was her typical happy self and said hi to him & tried to talk to him. Either he was very quiet in his responses or didn't respond at all. I can usually hear him from the other room, but didn't hear him say anything to her. She tried!
I did take D4 to school this morning. She was not very cooperative getting dressed for me either, but we got it done and got to school & me to work all on time! She was happy when she got to school, as her best friend was already there. They both started to smile when they saw each other. I will take D4 to school every day from now on, whether H changes his mind or not. I figure that in less than a month it will be my responsibility anyway. Might as well get used to it now.
I'm taking D4 to a picnic tomorrow. Our company puts on a BIG summer event. A party both Friday & Sat. evening & a family picnic on Sat. afternoon. I have a friend/co-worker that just had a baby. She also has 2 girls around D4's age. I might spend Sat. evening with them instead of going to the event. I wanted to go, but I'd rather be with D4. I don't think H deserves time with her right now. The way he's acting, he probably made his own plans anyway and will be gone.
Time to get busy. Have a great day.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day