Hey FIB - interesting that your W may be coming out of the tunnel now. I'm a sucker for a happy ending so I'll hold out hope that she can prove to you that she doesn't want a D - but you have to decide what you want.

It's funny - my W has given me the "I made a mistake, I'm back, ILY" speech twice already. I think getting it only to find out it wasn't real has been incredibly difficult. Both times she seemed coherent and when they are saying exactly what you want to hear...it's amazing. The worst is that both times she announced it to the kids also. I mean how many times can you drive the bus over us??

I'm in a very good place with the boys. the hard part is the neighbors - for obvious reasons the boys hate them and complain a lot about that sitch. I am thinking about a lot of things in that regard - once my W and I get stronger together (notice the PMA)I am going to move us out of there. And I don't mean I have to wait for a reconciliation. Just want to see some strong progress and we are pony expressing it out of here.

The boys know how much I love their mother - I tell them that every day - very important to me, especially when they are complaining to me. I feel a lot better than Wednesday night!


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.