Happy anniversary, l - sounds like your ride and mine have been similar. As we've just had our 17th anniversary (pretty much ignored), it's good to know that there is some hope for making it another year.
Have you asked your H about the new email account?
Will we ever really trust them again? (a question that could certainly block reconnection) If you and your C can make some progress towards figuring that out, I'd love to hear about it.
