I've spent the last 4 hours sorting through access problems to online accounts for the credit card and banking.
Yesterday morning I couldn't access the online credit card account. It stayed that way until this morning. Putting in my spouse's information (current zipcode, etc.) would have allowed me to create a new password, but I didn't. However, I let my lawyer know. This morning I had access again and noticed a few changes which had been deleted.
I decided to change the security questions to ones spouse would know to relieve his frustrations because it is a joint card. It was something that could only be done by calling the credit card directly. I sent him the information, relaying my actions to the lawyer. I didn't realize only ONE set of security questions were allowed per credit card account. Granted he could have found that out on his own.. but I didn't want the hassle of going through not having access again.
The bank assured me a glitch in the system had prevented me from logging in.
I have to admit, the thought passed through my mind of passive/aggressive harrassment. However, I figured assume the best, work in a positive manner and let it go.
It's odd how what was a marriage becomes a dissolving business partnership. I have no interest, nor did I, of hiding any information from him or making it difficult.
Like Mike once said.. "Stick me with a fork, I'm done."
