hey hon)))))))))) glad to hear the dork didnt' change things on you, prayers that he gets that house refinanced, due to the foreclosures the banks are wary about anyone buying/refinancing, as months go by things are bound to get better on the house market.
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H made his 30 second decision that he wants this D 150% and has never backed down. He feels relieved and at peace with the whole thing
He's relieved his fogged mind has come up with A decision... you could've been talking about my stbx on the above statement. So "free" that he finally found peace, yea right, after months of not knowing what the hell he's doing he chooses the easy way out, well, the seemingly easy way out, now reality is setting, he's wondering how he'll take of kids or make ends meet. Same with your H, pretty soon reality will come to la-la land, he just doesn't see it now nor will admit to it.
Cry and vent and cry, dont' hold it don't deny it, it's worse when you do. Look at moving to the new place as a great opportunity to start a whole new life, new people new places. If I haven't recommend it to you yet please read "the spiritual D",it will help you get you in the right frame of mind, the book encourages you to use the D as a catapult to a new better life. It will be, have faith)))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
