Haha. Hey Nikki P, got a question. i'll put it here since i feel more comfortable than on my own thread.

My W told me last night that she feels i'm constantly checking up on her, and in some respects I do, but am working hard not to. She also said she's going out to a bar with friends tonight, but didnt invite me. Should I ask to go along? This would be a 180 for me - I'm usually happy to stay at home. Or would that seem like i dont trust her going out with friends?

Keep up the good work Smartcookie. We all appreciate you.


"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".