I hope you have a good day today. I thought about the baby steps. I think they take a while to even get started. The biggest thing is that even though she is conflicted, she is still around. Show her your positive changes. Let her see you GAL. Show her the stability she can't bring herself to have right now in her confused state.
Whether your M works eventually or doesn't, she is messed up. That is her baggage. You didn't ask for any of this no matter what your part. Remember that!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
