Just make sure that you have done the work you wanted to do on you, first. Aren't you still working on boundary setting?
I, like the rest of us mortal, fallible humans, am a work in progress. Funny, but boundary setting has never been an issue with me except with W, in fact the opposite tends to be true...people find me intimidating and inflexible at work.
I have spent a long time understanding how this happened with W and definitely won't let it happen in any subsequent Rs. Obviously, until I am actually D'ed, nothing is going to go very far. But, I am ready to move on, and this is a big part of it.
AG, I definitely agree with what you are saying, and I have no interest whatsoever in dating someone who is M. (Maybe a double std. on my part...you think?)
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