Not the plumbing. I'm not ready for that type of constructive destruction.
Amidst all this.. what you unselfishly give to others, the tremendous strides you're making in your personal life, your marriage, your relationships ... give yourself a teenie tiny pat on the back.
Forget the husband Leave the kids behind for a moment Dismiss the piano Pause on the studies Eject the papa Let the house wait Order out for dinner Wait to check the mail Belay the snake