Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
OK! Did some brainstorming tonight with another board member....
Here were some thoughts, that I can't take credit for!
Remember Kalni's idea of notes, with simple questions, with checkboxes? Put them on the mirror!
Like: Movie Saturday? Your choice... You...me...ice cream...dq? (Or maybe Coldstone!) Pina Colada or Margarita on the patio? Or some other kind of personal, but non romantic type of thing.... help me out here!
Then, she though of the little mint on the pillow, like at an expensive hotel. Or fortune cookies!
So, what do you guys think?
I need to get to sleep, C at 7 tomorrow morning! So, I won't be on here until later!
Put the notes on the mirror!!!! That's a great idea!
Fortune cookie might be harder to pull off unless that happens to be one of your many culinary skills.
Mints on the pillow are super nice. How could you make sure she read the note attached though?
Are the boys ever out of the house leaving just you and W alone?
If that rare occasion ever presented itself you could do the Pina Colada or Margarita on the patio idea but not leave her a note in advance. Tack a note to the front door (or whatever door she uses to enter the house) saying "Follow the yellow brick road" and use only yellow post-it notes. Leave the next note about two feet inside the door saying "follow", next "getting warmer", next "curious now?", next "how about now?", keep leaving them all the way to the patio and be waiting there with drinks, music, and snacks.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!