We talked about me keeping the house. I will have to cut back on my studies, and go back to work at the Hospital, working in Long term care is such a downer! But my job I have now ends next month, and Im going to need a really good job to pay for this place.

He said the strangest thing the other day, that its good if I keep the house because then he can keep his things here while he transfers to Virginia for 7 months. WTF??? How am I supposed to explain that to someone if I start dating? Its his boat, motorcycle, 4 wheeler, tools, guns, tons of books, and whatever else (I will take over the bike and 4 wheeler though :/). Does he want a divorce or not? Doesnt a divorce entail separation of possessions AND love? Maybe I should just sell it all while hes gone. How can I heal if I have a closet full of his clothes and a house full of His things while hes off playing house with the MOW?? Does he want to maintain this as a home base, but not a home?

All in all the convo wasnt bad, I was too dumbfounded to tell him the hell you can keep your junk here while your off with her! I stayed calm and didnt really answer. I dont want to seperate or divorce, I want his things to stay here because HE is here, Im not a storage unit. I dont want to remove him from our home, but he has removed himself, but now hes telling me that he... I dont know what hes telling me. Im so confused by his behavior. I think maybe hes been eating lead paint chips.

Last edited by bluerain; 07/11/08 07:55 AM.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...