it is moving quickly. she knows for sure 100% that i don't want to give up. she tells me to anyway. we are both concerned about the impact on our son, but he is young still and will suffer a lot less. we are committed to getting along for the sake of our son, and we will both spend an incredible amount of time with him and caring for him. I have asked repeatedly if there was anything i could do, and that i knew the end was near; she feels confident in her decision. of course, doesn't everyone feel confident when OM or OW is waiting in the wings ?
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF