she didn't just drop this bomb out of nowhere...back in april she said "what if i'm not in love with you/I don't think I want to be married" of course I brushed it all off, saying we would work it out, things went back to being good (or so I thought). it's been a few months coming. I shouldn't have been so surprised.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF