We all go through waves of spending too much time on the boards. There are so many sitches and you find little bits of meaning in different ones. You want to keep pursuing that emotional knowledge.
You came here because of W?! I think I need to hear a little more about that.
No, nothing happens overnight. The rule of thumb that MWD mentions is that it takes 1 month of hard work by both parties for every year of marriage. Nothing is going to happen overnight. That's why we say that you should concentrate on yourself and making you the best person you can possibly be. Whether the M lasts or not, you'll always have you.
Hang in there - happiness is never defined through another.
