It is awful here. 111 with humidity and smoke in the air from all the fires in California.Those poor fireman must be miserable \:\( thanks Trip, BH, gforce, qoe100, Rob and lnd,
nice point lnd , I know he has been hurt in the past and he does not bring it up, he says past is past and no sence rehashing it. Maybe hearing my pain makes him think about what he has gone through and he does not like to have the hurt resurface. who knows. Men... can't live with em.. can't live without em ;\)

found out about affair 8/06
H moves out Nov/06
D final 8/07
X re marries OW 5/08
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Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow".
-- Mary Anne Radmacher