Officially Here Now

[mishka422]

Chris - I don't know what the thing is with these WAS's and big important days. They seem to pick holidays, birthdays, big parties, etc to drop these things on us. CRAZY!

Keep your chin up, call a L, get your ducks in a row and then let H dangle in the wind. He won't be feeling good about his decision for long, trust me.

Step back from him as much as possible right now and let him wonder what is going on with you. Why you aren't raging at him about this. When you do have to see him make sure you keep a mysterious grin on your face regardless of what he is saying. That will keep him wondering.

Sweetie, I understand completely how you feel. You feel damaged beyond repair by the person you trusted with your heart and soul for so many years. It feels like the world has crashed around you yet again and that is understandable. Pick yourself up and protect yourself from his insanity.

You will make it through this. You will most likely feel differently again in a few days. Let it ride itself out.

Don't do anything rash, just get an appointment with a L to talk about your options.

(((((((((Chris))))))))))