I'm planning on letting her two halves duke it out and sit here and just be me. I've told her my end, so now it is completely up to her.
As I mentioned w/ Phoenixdeux, she didn't speak to me at all yesterday, but has talked non-business to me twice today, so maybe she's softening up all over again. Maybe she won't be able to stop "gravitating toward me" as you put it. Who knows?
All I know is I'm still going to be very guarded b/c I'm not doing this again.