Hi Scott,

Glad to hear that life is treating you well!

You need to get on your bike man, it's summer in New England for God's sake! I've taken to early morning and late evening rides now that summer is in full bloom here in FL. Also been mountain biking in the CO Rockies in June and going again next month - now that is something!

I, like you, struggle with the concept of foregiveness. I am perfectly amicable with the W, don't ever think about her and/or OM, so it's not like I am eaten up with anger over her actions...however, I see foregiveness as something that you give after the act/sin/whatever has ceased and the person repents/asks for foregiveness. Maybe I'm more Old Testament than New?

Oh, and I will take Ian's 12 pack +1, he can drink iced tea and watch us get a cool buzz on!

Take care, SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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