M I think my H would have been ok if I kicked him out..he was doing everything possible to let me know he was done like staying out every night until 2,3 ,4 or 5 am? Finally he left on his own --he just put some clothes in a white plastic bag and said he was staying at friends house. My H still pysically resembles his ols self..he still dresses the same, hes gained weight, he has dyes his hair(to get gray out 2-3 x) mentally he seems scary too..like a lost child, secretive and very confused..he cant seem to take care of his business I thought this yesterday when I saw him as he looked terrible Is he going to make it? hang in there you seem like you have done a good job taking care of yourself and kids during the crisies peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow