Better news today. H is about to sign the temp order documents with no changes to the terms. Thank you!!!! He's so up and down, which does make me uneasy about how responsible he will actually be before everything gets settled. Next we have to wait 120 days before the D can be finalized(my state's law). I really hope that H can get approved for his refinance. Of course, I'm making sure I have a good legal protection in the final D re: my rights and the sale of house if H can't refinance. My L is good, and I trust her- so I guess I'll just trust this. H is motivated to keep trying to get approved for the refinance b/c he wants the pride of being the sole owner of the house.




Last edited by New Path RJ; 07/11/08 01:34 AM.

Me 40
H 39
2nd M- 6 months
No kids
Previous D, 1st M
DBer from 2003