Did I ever tell you folks about a friend of mine who had this bizarre theory about dating? If so, you'll hear it again! He said that he expected to be rejected 9 out of 10 times, so every time he was rejected he felt excited because that meant he was one closer to that magic number 10, who was gonna say "yes". He'd even ask out women he knew would say "no" just to get that much closer to that big score that he knew was just around the corner! I always thought he was kind of nuts but, in hindsight, I guess it's all about attitude, isn't it... and how to turn your losses into gains. Well, time to hit the sack as 4:00 am comes early. Gotta drive the family to the airport. Goodnite Dbers.
whatisis,
I have heard that about sales people as well........
The dating arena is interesting...... One can just about always find someone who is attracted to you.... It is just a matter of time....... The funny thing is you sometimes do approach that woman you think will say "no" and she ends up digging you BIG time.....
I heard a very wise man say the best advise his father gave him was... "Son, it NEVER hurts to ask." I have applied that tidbit of wisdom to so many areas...... And I am surprised over and over again!
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
