Thanks. I agree, staying positive these last 4 or 5 weeks has been a huge benefit, not only to how the W is responding to me but also for my own sanity. Before I was engrossed in to much gloom and doom thinking. It was really wearing me down. I couldn't sleep, couldn't eat, and walk around like a zombie. Definitely not healthy.
Today, although my overall sitch has not improved dramatically (W hasn't called me up and said "I've changed my mind I want to stay married to you") we are getting along better in our communication and I can tell she is acting more positive in the tone of her voice. I plan on just keeping on doing what I am doing.
