Hi, I'm new to the forum.

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Thanks Arthur and sgccxok. I started packing this morning and I'll finish tonight. The wine is already chilling and I will be getting my fishing license on my way home tonight. I'm taking my DB book with me and the lounge chair.

I just don't know that I can every forget about the situation. Maybe this is more to distract myself than anything.

How do I reach him? How does anything I do or say get across the divide? Do I give up and just focus on me and that will magically draw him in? It seems far too simplistic. It feels a little hopeless is what it feels like.

I think the lounge chair, the water, the book......oh. And the wine will help quite a bit. This is good.